I say ount as the dating bar in New York is so low – ha!
The apps are pretty cool when you think about it. They give you access to so many more people than you’d ordinarily meet. Of course this means more work/screening/messaging; but it’s mostly worth it. Lastly here, for what it’s worth, I really liked Matthew Hussey’s book. The title (and cover) are super cheesy so maybe rip the cover off or pretend you’re in high school and make a book cover, but read it – it’s packed with a lot of smart info.
Handling Rejection.
Don’t take it personally. Of course you can be annoyed – we’re only human. But realize it literally has nothing to do with you. Someone might stop talking to you but maybe they just deleted the app. Or started dating someone exclusively. You really don’t know. I think the thing about the apps is that you get exposed to SO MANY PEOPLE. Which as I mentioned above, is pretty cool when you think about it. You meet so many more people than you ever would but will also wind up being rejected by so many people, too!
